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You live in a body, and your body (brain) generates emotions. Too much sugar and alcohol? You’re set up to spin out. It’s SAD (seasonal affective disorder) season, so depression-like lethargy contributes. You’re either hyper, or would like to hibernate. Keep our routine,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], eat right, get your sleep and exercise. Take an immune system supplement, because “5 minutes of anger suppresses your immune system for up to 6 hours,” and “mad” isn’t the only emotion that does that, or that you’re going to be feeling – more intensely than usual.
ADMIT HOW YOU FEEL, TO YOURSELF.
COMPONENTS OF EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
You don’t need to share this with people involved; vent with a coach or someone objective. I don’t know about other coaches, but I plan my own Christmas way ahead to block off coaching time in December and January. (After-Christmas blues is about as bad.) Admit you don’t like this woman and she gets on your nerves. If you fight it, you give it energy. Admit at the same time though, that how you handle this is a choice. You can let the fact that you have to be with someone you don’t like ruin your get-together, or you can accept that you’d rather it were otherwise, but it isn’t, so you’re going to find a way to enjoy yourself, or just get through it and not add your misery, temper, volatility, etc. to the mix. I’m sure your husband would appreciate if you acted like everything was fine. You may not be able to “get over it” inside, but if you act like you have, you’d be surprised what will happen. A coach can give you specific tips on what to say and not say, how to answer, how to defuse, and how to stay out of trouble. When you see how you are contributing to the situation, and what you can do differently, you’ll be relieved. That’s what most people tell me who learn how to handle themselves in situations like this. “I was relieved. It was like a boulder was lifted off my shoulders.”
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Being Step-Parenting Expert for a major website, the letters start flooding in right after Thanksgiving. It’s so predictable, I created an Internet course on how to handle difficult people, focusing on family and step-family issues. You love them, now learn how to get along with them is the theme. Nothing is worse than these family squabbles. If there is one thing that is predictable in the mental health field, it’s that psychologists’ offices will fill up in December.
Then I would advise you take a course that teaches you the components of emotional intelligence. It demystifies the whole thing – why the tension, how to say things that keep you safe and don’t escalate, how to let go, how to disarm the aggressive, and how to cope. Do it now and get prepared for the Christmas get-together. Family patterns are deeply entrenched and intensely emotional. They don’t change overnight and if you keep taking the bait, they’ll keep baiting the hook. You also need to see when your actions or reactions make YOU the “difficult person” and learn to do something different. When you change, your life changes.
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Neutral expectations are best. If you are fantasizing about a perfect family get-together,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], you are setting yourself up for depression. It’s the law of emotions – what goes up, must come down. If you demand perfection or that things go your way or you won’t be happy, you put an energy out that almost guarantees the opposite of what you want.
My husband and I have been together for 10 years. We have 4 kids, his and mine. I love his youngest one like she were mine, but the oldest one I just can’t stand. He’s favored her in the past, which irks me, and she’ll always doing things that get on my nerves. She excludes me in a sneaky way. She arranged her wedding shower so I couldn’t come, and whenever I offer to take care of her baby, she finds some excuse. It puts an unpleasant atmosphere when we get-together. Usually I have everyone over for Christmas Eve, but I’m really having trouble this year. It breaks my husband’s heart that we don’t get along and he tells me just to get over it,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but I don’t know how.
Accidents also escalate this time of the year. We’re stressed with extra work to do. Preoccupied with these thoughts about how to get along with these people and still have a decent Christmas, Hanukkah or whatever. Our emotions cloud our thinking so we become more careless, both physically and emotionally. In fact the people who can’t admit to themselves that they’re stressed or upset are the most likely to have an accident, because that’s the only way their Inner Wisdom can deal with it.
If it’s really awful, just say no. Go on a cruise with your husband over Christmas. Yes, the world would still turn. If that’s too radical, start with something smaller, but understand that you can change a tradition at any time. When they’re changed for us,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with the death of a parent, for instance,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], we manage to create something new. It’s more pleasant when you control the change.
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So getting conscious is the first step.
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How am I going to get through this dinner, and the next one, and the next one. I’m desperate. This woman is ruining my holidays.
Learning to let go,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], managing your emotions and those of others, handling difficult people and stressful times, and managing change are part of emotional intelligence, one of the best things you can put under the Christmas tree.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF
The thing is, nobody every taught us this stuff.
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LOWER YOUR EXPECTATIONS
With a healthy body, you’re more able to adjust your attitude, and that’s the next step. It’s an emotional time of year for everyone, and people aren’t at their best. People who are vulnerable to begin with,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], really take a dive. Any issue that’s been percolating is likely to boil over, unless you are aware. Emotional intelligence starts with self-awareness. Know yourself,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and what sets you off. Then avoid it.
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“I’m going to do the Cake Walk!” I declared. My mother ushered me toward the extremely tall teacher presiding over this human roulette, and somberly, she handed me a slip of paper bearing a number.
I am not sure where the phrase “it’s a cake walk” began, but it might just as well have begun at the Lily B. Clayton Elementary School carnival in l964. For it was there and then that I learned that even though one’s brown cat-eye glasses have suddenly made one homely enough to cause one’s little boyfriend to turn and walk the other way at lunch period, in the realm of karma a certain balance yet exists.
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My brother and I raced onto the scene of the carnival and left our parents trailing behind. Our school playground of asphalt had been transformed into a diminutive township of plywood booths draped in canvas and was peppered with signs promising exotic adventures at scandalous prices: Catch a Fish! Win a Prize!—5 cents, The Great Fatima Will Tell Your Fortune—10 cents, Make the Principal Take the Plunge—A Dollar a Dunk, and CAKE WALK.
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“Stand on this number?” I asked, gazing incredulously at the tiny ticket. I could not see how standing on it was going to win me a birthday cake.
I spotted my love immediately. It stood 12 inches high: a plastic poodle on wheels,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with a leash by which to rein in the surreal pet. It was hot pink,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], with googly eyes that rolled enthusiastically as I pulled it along. Though my mother looked chagrined at this new appendage, I could not have been more pleased.
That day, I learned that sometimes life turns inexplicably good. Despite the recent setback with my eyeglasses and my little boyfriend, I had won two cakes and a hot pink poodle by walking around in a circle and standing on a number. I had not worked hard, had not even been especially polite. On that spring day in l964 it had simply been my moment to take the cake.
They tried to discourage my gambling fever, but I persisted, going on to become the first six-year-old in the history of the Lily B. Clayton Elementary School carnival ever to win three Cake Walks in a row. After my second, the game’s towering supervisor regarded me skeptically. “I think you have enough cake. How about a toy?” she said and led me to a table piled high with garish,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], nonfood items.
“She’s got it!” yelled one of the grownups, pointing at my feet.
A small herd of grownups urged me toward the table to make my choice.
When I presented the frosted chocolate prize to my mother, she said, “Well, how ‘bout that.” Scanning the grounds, she added, “What are you going to do now?”
I looked at the slip of paper. “What do I do with it?”
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“Go and stand on that number,” she said, as though this made sense.
At age six I learned my first lessons in karma. My first-grade boyfriend gave me a first kiss on the cheek. I got my first pair of glasses and immediately lost my first little boyfriend,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], whose interest in me proved shallow. I read my first books, about Dick and Jane and Spot and the others whose names also boasted a single syllable. And I took my first cake walk.
“I’m going to do the Cake Walk again.”
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Your notes could also say how much you love him, and the reasons you two are a perfect couple. The final note could contain the crucial question of “Will you do me the honor of being my husband?”
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Intellectuals on Tuesday broke their silence on Korea��s plans to take over wartime operational control of its troops from the U.S. Protests against the plan so far were primarily led by retired generals and former defense ministers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], but now civil servants and serving officers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], lawyers,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], activists and business leaders as well as academics signed a petition urging the government to scrap the plan.
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First, I want to reference "The You" and what it is specifically and why is it so important. First "The You" is not the physical aspects such as the color of your hair, shape of your nose or body size but the unique spiritual energy we refer to it as your spirit, your soul or essence.
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So, what job hunting advice do I recommend to Occupy Wall Street protesters who want to get a job -- eventually?
First, start job hunting, rather than protesting.
Reason = They display many behaviors employers NEVER want in people they hire.
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Here are some destructive consequences from being an OWS protester, plus job hunting advice to help protesters who want a job.
Thus, Occupy Wall Street protesters appear to possess a dreadful entitlement mentality. As children grows into adults,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], they must fend for themselves,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], make choices, and keep promises. But, job hunters who gleefully demand entitlements they did not earn inevitably will act like unhappy, disgruntled employees – if any employer was stupid enough to hire them. And no employer wants to hire cry-babies.
Occupy Wall Street protesters will have a hard time job hunting and getting jobs!
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JOB HUNTING ADVICE & TIPS FOR OCCUPY WALL STREET PROTESTERS
First, Occupy Wall Street protesters shut themselves out of the job hunting arena in a number of ways. They will find it hard to explain to job interviewers what they did for months while unemployed. Employers who discover they were busy protesting will light a match, and burn their resumes.
Horribly,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Occupy Wall Street protesters act thrilled ganging up to bully and harm innocent people. Protesters blocked traffic and sidewalks. That shows they do not care that their actions impact other people. Bullying while feeling no regret is typical behavior for sociopaths. It is like a street gang or thug. Employers avoid hiring job applicants who feel thrilled harming and bullying people. Such job applicants proved they delight in acting impolite –which is behavior that would harm customers and co-workers.
Third, Occupy Wall Street protesters can fulfill their humanistic desires by volunteering at charities during evenings and weekends. Volunteering will teach OWS protesters how to help people in the real world, rather than childishly demanding other people help them. It also can improve their work ethic, because they will need to show up and produce results – rather than merely spout rhetoric at social or political events, such as Occupy Wall Street protests.
HOW DO OCCUPY WALL STREET PROTESTERS INJURE THEIR CAREER OPPORTUNITIES?
How can protesting in Occupy Wall Street result in harming future job hunting prospects?
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For starters, work ethic looks minimal to nonexistent among Occupy Wall Street protesters. Protesters want organizations to cave in to their demands. But,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], in a job, employees must cater to customers’ and employers’ needs and demands – not their own personal demands. Being immersed in day-after-day screaming about how organizations should bend to their demands glorifies laziness and a demonstrates a lousy work ethic. No employer wants to hire a lazy person who possesses a bad work ethic.
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In a nutshell, doing a little extra "grunt work" during the shopping phase can really pay off and find you the best cruise deals. Even shaving 10% off the original listed price means extra money to splurge on your trip.
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-Why do some people fare better than others when it comes to readjusting to a new life after divorce?
-Is it their age or their gender?
-Does it matter if there was infidelity involved or who initiated the divorce?
On the list of major life stressors, divorce comes in second; only the death of a spouse is first. It used to be that the death of a spouse was the number one reason why marriages ended. Now it's divorce (Steiner,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], Suarez, Sells, & Wykes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 2011). And, even though people are aware of the emotional and psychological consequences of divorce,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], it continues to be a common occurrence.
Steiner, Lisa M. , Suarez, Elisabeth C. , Sells, James N. and Wykes, Scott D.(2011) 'Effect of Age,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych],Initiator Status, and Infidelity on Women's Divorce Adjustment', Journal of Divorce & Remarriage,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], 52: 1, 33 — 47
"You cannot bandage a gaping wound; you have to heal it from the inside out." ~Nicole Nenninger
According to recent research (Steiner, et al., 2011), it is a person's sense of well-being, both spiritual and existential, that helps the most with the adjustment to divorce. In this particular study, it did not matter who initiated the divorce, what age or gender you were,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], or if there was infidelity involved. What mattered most was their sense of well-being which translated into a better self-concept, physical health,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], emotional adjustment,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], and a sense of purpose in their lives.
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Cultivating a healthy sense of well-being is essential to living an authentic and fulfilling life, even if you are not divorced. It is a gift to ourselves that is truly priceless.
When I first separated from my ex-husband I had already been in therapy for six months. Even though I couldn't afford it as a single mother,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I kept going with an inner knowing that it was the best thing not only for myself, but for my children. I have never regretted that decision. As the product of a traumatic childhood, I knew at some point I would have to work out my issues so that they would stop reenacting themselves throughout my adult life. People who are self-aware and self-reflective are able to heal from their wounds much faster than are those who insist on repressing or suppressing their issues. Now that I am remarried,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], I know that I am not dealing with issues left over from my previous marriage or from my childhood.
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Today, in the modern world,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], not only adults have morphed in their thinking but children too have changed their course of thinking from one level to another. They want flashy cars, expensive watches and clothes,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], best deodorants and perfumes and the list never ends. Luxury is good for everyone but its drawback is that it renders a person incapable of leaving it. This refers to the magnetism attached to branded objects which are found hanging in showrooms which are quite expensive too. Modernity has changed civilization to a large extent but people need to remember which is a better choice- is having all luxuries and remaining its slave better or living a life free of artificial burdens which creates stress.
Parents should make their children understand the importance of money and how to value it. Money is like water which flows away as soon as it comes in an individual’s hands,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. They need to learn the importance of values and understand the need of any given situation. Buying branded clothes once in awhile never hurts any parents’ hearts but constant shopping of luxurious brands pinches their pockets too. Youngsters should learn to save money rather than spending it on all their lavish ideas and fantasies,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]. Children are the future generations of any country who need to be guided at every step until they can stand on their feet and take wise independent decisions which should benefit them and the ones related to them. Last but not the least parents and children should understand each other and respect the decisions made by elders because it always will be in their benefit,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
Children often turn towards luxurious brands because of psychological reasons: first is image and the second is aesthetic taste. For children image is a stressful idea and the pain to maintain it makes a huge impact on their personality and behavior too. In psychological terms fear is the result of a virtual world they tend to live in and are happy in that world. Those with whom they interact and converse become the viewers of their personality and if found good get a lot of praise. Parents may find it quite a lame idea but it’s just the opposite,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], for children it doesn’t matter what parents think,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], rather they feel attracted towards the limelight and become blind towards their well-wishers.
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Clothes reflect the personality to a great extent and it shows the status of the family an individual belongs to, no matter if they are from an urban or middle class. More than eight decades ago clothes existed and everyone wore them day and night,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych], from dawn to dusk. There wasn’t any brand at that time and the quality of clothes was also quite good. This doesn’t mean that branded clothes aren’t good, their quality is superb yet non-branded clothes cannot be sidelined from the picture. The shift in nature of understanding among children has been quite drastic through the ages.
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When children are in the stage of growth aesthetic sense never seeps in their mind or even does not cross,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; to counter-attack their rivals in fashion children yearn to get all branded clothes and objects for which they aren’t even slightly mature. Often such an attitude comes in them as a hereditary character,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych]; such thinking exists in the elite class of the society who think of wearing non-branded clothes as a shame. Not all parents are rich enough to fulfill all their children’s needs. They also need to think about their economic condition and then decide as to what is best for them and their family,[link widoczny dla zalogowanych].
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Of course there are exceptions to the above statement. If you work in a loud environment or teach, coach, or train in a large room, then you will certainly need to speak in a volume greater than Level 1.
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